ABOUT ME
Many people believe that, by nature, there is divinity inherent in femininity, which makes it superior to manhood.
I like this perception, it equates to my dominant way, from which point of view the man is always inferior to the woman. To me, a female slave can also be more valuable than her master…
But this is the femdom point of view…
I do know that all my dominance is not good for anything, if my counterpart doesn’t want to recognize and embrace it. What is a diva without admirers, a mistress without servants, a despotic ruler without slaves or a sadist without a masochist – nothing.
I am aware of that. It’s the same with a slave who isn’t really a slave without a strict mistress and there can be no victim without a culprit… as much as all those are opposed to their corresponding counterparts, as much do they need and require each other to exist.
However, in real life, the most important thing to me is the human being itself and mutual respect.
Respect means that you accept the way, how a man/woman is. As much as I do not want you to try to be something you are not, as much am I not willing to bend over backwards to become something, someone wants to see me as, but which I really am not.
I don’t want to be the person who perfectly makes wishes come true for everybody, but to remain true to myself and do only what I really want to do. Even I am not the same every day…
In addition to that, I do not want others to have to change for me: I neither expect a pure masochist to submissively kneel in front of me, nor expect a pure submissive person to endure senseless severe pain… but I do not want to make generalizations, because actually I am against all those classifications in categories. But here, they help to expose my priorities even though I am strictly against stereotyped thinking.
Every human being is an individual, not only you, but also me.
In my opinion, BD/DS/SM exists in so many different forms and varieties as there are human beings on this planet, each with his or her own fantasies, dreams and ideas, affected by ones own individual story of life. And also the interaction between two human beings is always different. I think every single one of them is a unique one. What may be a pleasure with the one person, with another person it might be something I cannot even imagine doing it…
This is also why I never plan sessions in advance. I’m always excited how things will develop, if you respond to and adapt to the situation and counterpart.
I am interested in the pure human being – which remains if you take away his normal clothing, status symbols and rights for some time – when squirming due to the pain or laying in the dirt, humiliated to the bones. Who devotes himself to me, let go of everything until the only thing left for him is to be, feel or maybe even fly…
Not all humans get along with each other.
But if there are similar expectations, affinities, a certain sympathy and the ability to communicate, it may become real – the possibility of little journeys into the realm on the other side, in which parts of our dark side could become reality … - the possibility to open the door to another sphere for a while…
To take you captive and take you with me, be it into the kingdom of women, where the only thing paid homage to is femininity, or into jail, boot camp, to an interrogation, detention, into a mortuary, shambles, etc. – there are so many stories and ideas on my mind…
but I will not tell all of them here and now ;)
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